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Nov 12, 20245 min read
My Spouse Had an Affair; Why Do I Still Love Them?
After an affair, remember to treat yourself with kindness and tenderness - much like you would for a child who is experiencing great pain.
Jun 7, 20244 min read
What if I Don't Want to Initiate Sex?
In sex therapy, it is common to have partners with mismatched libido - meaning, there is a gap between the couple's natural sex drives....
Apr 19, 20248 min read
10 Ways to Stop Routine from Destroying Your Sex Life
Here's the thing: keeping sexual desire ignited with a long-term partner is different than sex with a stranger.
Dec 30, 20236 min read
My Intimacy Therapist Podcast Episode 74 - Are You Avoiding Sex with Your Spouse?
Show transcript from the My Intimacy Therapist Podcast - Episode 74. Listen to the episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. 0:04 Welcome to...
Sep 20, 20236 min read
Should We Consider a Separation?
You know the reasons that you have arrived here. A hopeful start of relationship has, over the time, morphed into the question: "should...
Feb 22, 20227 min read
Podcast Episode 40 - Why Do I Have to Initiate Everything in My Relationship?
Show transcript from the My Intimacy Therapist Podcast - Episode 40. Listen to the episode on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. 0 : 04 Welcome...
May 4, 20213 min read
Expect Yourself to Change in Your Marriage
Be reborn, sister. Allow yourself to evolve and transform, like Mother Earth herself. The expectation of marriage is that we meet a...
Mar 31, 20213 min read
A Rant on Social Media and Intimacy
We pick up our phones subconsciously and scroll... all the while, forgetting to roll over and give attention to our partner...
Jun 27, 20203 min read
Keeping the Love Alive Long-Distance
Hint: creativity saves relationships!
Jun 1, 20204 min read
Why Self-Care is Needed for Black and Interracial Couples
There is miraculous, divine healing power in relationships. Let yours be a fortress, refuge, and everlasting fountain.
Apr 5, 20204 min read
How to 100% Guarantee that Your Partner Will Shut Down
Here's your fool-proof guide to shutting your partner down and getting you back to your comfy, familiar cycle. Guaranteed.
Mar 30, 20203 min read
Why Intimacy Needs Space - Internally
Why do you need more mental space for intimacy to be possible? And how do you do it?
Mar 25, 20202 min read
The Power of Non-Sexual Touch
Social-isolation may mean that you are home with a partner, inviting you to confront your pre-existing intimacy issues. Here's how to do it.
Mar 21, 20203 min read
For Guys Who Like Intimacy (but for some reason, she doesn't)
Guys, Can we talk for a second? Look. She doesn't understand why you get so upset when she isn't interested in sex. She...
Mar 21, 20202 min read
My Heart Hurts and I Don't Know What to Do
Don't be afraid of your heart's longings, friend. Because you'll feel it. It's there, like a low hum. It's meant to be there. Let it stay.
Mar 21, 20204 min read
What If a Miracle Happened in Your Relationship?
If you woke up in the morning and a miracle happened, the problem was gone.... what would the day look like?
Mar 19, 20201 min read
Why You Should Find Respect for Your Man
What do you respect about him? What do you see that makes you think, "Wow, he is resilient." Or that he's quick-witted, loyal, persistent...
Jun 20, 201911 min read
Journeying Through Infertility
Facing infertility? Read the perspective of a woman who sees and has experienced the struggle.
May 19, 20193 min read
My Spouse and I Keep Fighting
Q: My spouse and I are always arguing. It seems like a little thing can get heated really fast. How can we learn to communicate better?...
May 16, 20192 min read
Have a Make-out Session
At the beginning of a relationship, you can't keep our hands off of each other. There's this magnetism, this desire to be wrapped in each...
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